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Widower sleeps beside dead wife for 5 years
Monday, 30 November 2009
A grief-stricken widow from central
Quang Nam
province slept on his wife’s grave for over a year before deciding that they
would both be better off indoors and in the bed they shared when they were
married.
But before
that he dug a tunnel into her grave in order to avoid the rain and cold while
he embarked on his nightly ritual of “sleeping with her”.
Neighbors and
local authorities discovered what he was doing and persuaded him to discontinue
the habit.
But within a
year he was back at it again. This time he exhumed his wife’s body, covered it
in plaster and clay and moved her back to his bedroom, where she has stayed for
the past five years.
Le Van, 55,
who lives at home with his three children and his wife’s corpse was described
by one neighbor as “a normal and well-behaved man,” dressed the body in clothes
and kept it in his bed since 2004.
Van told Lao
Dong newspaper that for the first two after he brought his wife back home,
his neighbors refused to visit him. But since then, most have grown more
accustomed to the idea and are no longer afraid to pay the odd courtesy call.
His youngest
son, a sixth-grader, usually hugs the corpse of his mother before retiring for
the night.
“My wife’s
body only passed away but her spirit still accompanies us,” Van said. “I have
no fear when it comes to sleeping with her at all.”
But
unfortunately for Van, a law passed last year states that all bodies must be
either cremated or buried to be in compliance with sanitation laws.
The decree
also bans burials in residential gardens unless an individual case is approved
by the People’s Committee at the provincial level.
Authorities
in Ha Lam Town said an inspection into the bizarre case will get underway soon.